When you’re an animal lover—and at LazyPaw Animal Hospitals we all are—sometimes it’s hard not to go nuts when you see a dog or cat who’s just too adorable to handle. However, not all dogs and cats have friendly personalities to match their fuzzy faces, and using good manners is a courtesy not only to the animal, but to their pet parent.
1. Ask permission before approaching.
Whether you are on the sidewalk, at the park, or visiting your friend’s home, before you try to pet an animal, ask the parent’s permission. You wouldn’t run up to a child and shove your face in theirs just because their outfit is cute, so never stampede dogs or cats. The dog may be recovering from surgery at an animal hospital, timid after getting dog vaccinations at the vet clinic, or just plain shy.
2. If the owner says no, respect their space.
Many pet owners have good reasons not to let their animals be touched or handled by strangers, so if the woman on the elevator says you can’t pet her Chow-Chow, don’t get your feelings hurt. The animal may be recovering from illness, shy, or have to go to the bathroom and can’t hold potty if they get excited. The owner does not have to offer a reason for declining, and you should always mind their boundaries.
3. If the owner says yes, transition to good dog or cat manners.
Approach dogs and cats slowly, don’t look them directly in the eye, and offer your hand out for a sniff with your palm down. If the pet parent says you’re allowed to touch, read the animal’s body language to make sure they are relaxed, and be gentle.
4. Never offer a pet food without explicit permission.
If you have a snack or even a pet treat, don’t give the animal anything to eat without the owner’s permission. Some pet parents will love your kindness, but most will likely decline since strange foods can easily upset animal stomachs and cause major trouble later on.
5. Never pet a service dog or a dog wearing a yellow ribbon.
Service dogs in vests should never be petted. Don’t ask! These dogs are in training or busy doing their jobs of helping their owners, and petting them is disrespectful and distracting. Similarly, dogs wearing yellow ribbons may be nervous, in training, shy or in season, but whatever the reason, the yellow ribbon is a sign to keep your distance.
Though some animal parents have to be more watchful and protective of their pets, many love having people shower adoration on their furry friends. If the owner doesn’t seem open to interaction, leave them alone—they have their own reasons and should be respected.
